Don’t you want me baby?

Don’t you want me baby?

DON’T you want me ohohohoho… as the brilliant Human League song goes, but what DO you do if your dates are not quite going according to plan and you are starting to feel a little unloved and unwanted?
Well for a start my single friends, never do what I did and go down the steep, scary road of self loathing and negativity! Oh I was a dating nightmare. If any of my dates failed to ring, declare undying love or show more than a hint of interest then I was on that slippery path to losing my self confidence and heading for the highway of self destruct!
This is why one of the newest dating sites, is far and away the best way to improve your dating technique and hook up with genuine, honest single people. The brilliant Steve, Anona and Clare (the nerve centre of ) have developed a brilliant and unique feedback system that only you and your date has access to. Although it may sound harsh, the idea is far from that and the system has been designed to help you get better at dating and improve your chances of finding love on line.
You should think of online dating as part of your ongoing personal development, as well as a way to meet new people. It is very rare for people to meet the love of their life within a few minutes of surfing dating sites, and the process can take some time. Instead of feeling impatient and disillusioned, think of your internet dating as a project and part of your bigger life plan. It should still be fun, but if you are serious about finding a partner online then you have to treat the process with some degree of seriousness and be prepared to invest some time and effort in it.
The feedback system gives you the chance to rate your date, thereby offering people a genuine chance to make improvements, if necessary, and also giving the odd ego boost as well which is never a bad thing!
It is not designed to aid character assassination or for you to be deliberately unkind about other singletons, the idea is that you support each other in your dating endeavours! You cannot please everyone, and it is unrealistic to think that everyone you meet on line will instantly fall for you, but by taking part in the feedback system you can truly improve your chances by taking comments in the spirit in which they are intended, instead of plunging into despair!

Happy dating!


Published by Sarah Adams

I am the author of The Life Edit, an eight step personal development coaching programme that harnesses the power of journalling and writing to help people make transformational changes to their lives. I am also journalist and writer who has worked for newspapers, magazines, TV and online for the last 35 years, and an accredited personal development practitioner. I have written books, appeared on TV and radio and have worked in the world of corporate communications as a senior manager. I launched and ran The Community Media Group for ten years-this is a social enterprise that exists to produce professional, community newspapers in socially challenging areas as well as providing free training.

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